A Connection Club event is a guided, in-person experience where people meet and have structured conversations with several different partners in a fun, low-pressure environment. We provide prompts, timing, and facilitation so you’re never left wondering what to say or how it works.

Yes — and also more than that.

Like speed dating, you’ll move through a series of one-on-one conversations. Unlike unstructured mixers or app swiping, the experience is thoughtfully guided so conversations feel easier, more natural, and more human.

Not at all. Nervousness is completely normal, and you don’t need to be naturally outgoing. We offer simple guidance and practical tools that help conversations flow — even if this has never felt easy for you in the past.

Absolutely. Most people attend solo, and the event is designed specifically for individual participants to meet new people.

Wear something that makes you feel comfortable and confident. There’s no formal dress code.

Most events are age-bracketed (for example: 25–35 or 30–45). Check the individual event listing for the specific age range.

This is a very normal concern — and an important one.

Not every event will result in a match, and that’s okay. Meeting people is a skill, not a single moment, and every conversation you have is practice.

Many people leave an event feeling more confident, more relaxed, and more capable — even if they don’t immediately connect with someone romantically. That confidence carries into everyday life.

We encourage you to:

• come back and play again at a future event

• practice your conversation skills in your regular life — with coworkers, baristas, neighbors, and friends

• be friendly and curious without waiting for a “special” setting

• and even use these skills in your dating app conversations, where they often make a big difference

Think of it this way: every great conversation is practice — and the more comfortable you become being yourself, the more ready you’ll be when the right match shows up.

At the end of the event, you’ll scan a QR code and complete a short, private form. You’ll indicate anyone you’d be open to connecting with again.

Matches are shared only when interest is mutual. No one is notified unless both people say yes. Contact details are then shared via a follow-up email from us.

There’s no pressure to decide anything during the event — and you won’t be put on the spot to follow up with anyone while you’re there.

No. Alcohol is optional. You’re welcome to participate sober, and many people do.

If your friend fits the criteria for that specific event (age range, gender/interest), they’re welcome to register separately. The experience is designed for individual participation rather than attending as a pair.

We don’t run formal background checks. These events are public social gatherings, and they’re treated as such—similar to meeting people at a bar, a community event, or through friends.

What we do focus on is creating a well-structured, actively hosted environment with clear community standards around respect, kindness, and behavior. The space is facilitated the entire time, so it’s not a free-for-all.

At the same time, meeting new people always comes with some level of personal responsibility. We encourage people to trust their instincts, take their time, and continue getting to know someone in ways that feel safe to them outside of the event.

Check out this article from our resource library, How to Enjoy Dating (Safely) in 2026. And feel free to reach out with additional questions or concerns.

Most events run between 2 and 2.5 hours. This allows time to settle in, participate in conversation rounds, and complete the matching process without rushing.

We’re happy to help. You can reach us anytime at hello@the-connection-club.com.